Sammy Young is a abusive, manipulative jerk. He joined a Christian dating site( laughable) claiming to be a divorced father of one. He is a father of 3 boys. He left New York for Nantucket a few days before his youngest child’s birthday. He has been gone for several months but calls me and others claiming he is not cheating and wants to work it out. A woman he lives with named Vanessa Phillips has sent messages claiming that Sammy is a “devoted dad.”What devoted dad abandons his wife and child to go get laid. He is a barber and often tells women his name is Kevin or some other crazy name. I filed for divorce but he refuses to sign anything. Which ultimately cost me more time and money. Did I mention he ran up my credit card before he left. Woman beware of this lying monster. He lies and manipulates constantly and will give you a sob story about how badly he was treated in his relationship. He claimed that his ex before me was such a monster but I found out that he is the real nightmare.